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From: guest (Albert)
, 1 months, post #1 |
Hello people,
My name is Albert and I'm 21 years old. For the last 7 years I've
been really attracted to contents where a male becomes a female and
does some shenanigans, either it be skinsuit, body swap, shapeshift
or possession. I've jacked off to everything related to this and
I've watched and read every content out there and imagined it with
every girl out there. I'm not being a woman permanently. I still
prefer being a male and I'm straight but I crave for being a woman
from time to time and explore myself and even try out sex as a
woman. However, I wouldn't ever want that to be permanent, I would
like to control my power. So what exactly is this feeling? I'm
never attracted to any male and I prefer being straight and being
with my girlfriend. But this is a secret I've always hidden it
within myself. I don't understand what is this feeling? How do I
satisfy it or overcome it? Does it stay with me lifetime? Am I
facing an identity crisis?
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From: guest (Robotman)
, 1 months, post #2 |
Albert you are straight alright. You just have a fetish. For
example, you want to shapeshift into an actress and check out,
something like that (That's psychologically a male response to
check out any woman). Fetishes do trigger people, if you don't want
that to disturb you, stay away from the content that triggers you.
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From: guest (egg_irl)
, 1 months, post #3 |
https://medium.com/@kemenatan/its-just-a-fetish-right-91cb0a4e261
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From: guest (ActualTgal)
, 1 months, post #4 |
Hun that was literally me at 21. At 28 I came out as trans, at 31
I'm living my best life <3 Not saying this is you, but allow
yourself to ask the tough questions.
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From: guest (SPB)
, 1 months, post #5 |
As said above, it's good to asks ourselves these questions.
Sometimes these fetishes signify a bigger urge or sometimes its a
deep rotted need. Take some time to reflect on these thoughts,
maybe visit a LGBTQ friendly therapist. A good look within never
harmed anyone - even if you are not trans, you will feel happier
that you know yourself better.
All speaking from experience.
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From: guest (Skeith)
, 1 months, post #6 |
While I cannot speak for the feitsh side of things as my experience
was always more geared toward just the trope of body swaps,
possessions, and gender swaps and not in a fetish way. I can relate
to your feelings on the subject as they are very similar to my own
before I realized I was trans
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From: Generic guest name
, 1 months, post #7 |
It's definitely a fetish, as someone who was exposed to it a very
young age sadly I only see it as a medium to feel pleasure and I've
never felt that I'm not me
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From: guest
, 1 months, post #8 |
I am 41yr male who is married and has kids. I was watching
Entertainment Tonight with my mom like 30 years ago when they did a
segment on an upcoming movie Switch starring Ellen Barkin. I was a
kid. This sparked something in me so much that over 30 years later
I’m still into it. I have always considered myself to be a straight
male but I have always wondered and imagined what it would be like
to be a beautiful woman. To get ready to go to work as woman, to
try and put makeup on, going out on a date. Seriously anything a
woman does I would love to experience that at. It will never happen
but the fantasy has never left me mind.
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From: guest (Albert)
, 1 months, post #9 |
Thank you everyone for your kind opinion. Although I can't mention
all you at once but I'll try to give a generalised reply to
everyone. I didn't consider this a fetish, an addictive one. This
has sparked to such an extent that I've stopped watching regular
porn I just prefer stuff like these. Although, I'm proud of you
guys to figure this out yourselves and come out as trans but I do
believe that I'm definitely straight. I prefer being straight and
having my girlfriend too, whom I'll propose soon enough to be my
wife (ofc she doesn't know about my fetish). This fantasy has been
with me since a young and I don't understand what is this feeling
exactly.
I can really to post #8 a lot because just like him this fantasy
sparked in me at a young age when I watched the film it's a
boy/girl thing and since then I have watched and read everything
related to this. I consider myself a happy straight male but time
to time I image what would it be like if I could become my mother,
aunt, teacher, girlfriend, office colleagues, an actress or any
girl for a limited time. I would love to try on new dresses, apply
makeup, perform my daily activites, pleasure myself and maybe even
get laid. I would prefer to get laid with a female in that form but
maybe a cock inside will also help me explore female orgasm to the
full potential.
Post #8 I would like to know more, how you managed to cope up with
this situation? Does your family know about it?
@ActualTgal Thank you for the suggestion. Although, I'm definitely
straight and I'm happy you had the chance to figure yourself out.
However, I would like to ask how do I allow myself these tough
questions? Because I do know it's quite an addictive fantasy/fetish
and also I believe I'm definitely straight. So that's what confuses
me a lot because I'm just blank here now with no idea where I stand
in this world.
Thank you @egg_irl that article was quite helpful.
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From: guest (Albert)
, 1 months, post #10 |
Sorry about the typos guys, I really got a shitty keyboard. I do
hope you understood what I meant.
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From: guest (ActualTgal)
, 1 months, post #11 |
Hey Albert, glad I could help. I just wanna first say that being
"straight" and being "trans" are not mutually exclusive. I've only
ever dated women pre and post transition (extremely common in our
community) so the fact that you like women is not even sort of a
deal-breaker (though for a long time I thought it was).
As for the tough questions, read some testimonials from other trans
folks. For many of us, this starts as a fetish, very often spurred
on by a movie, show, comic, etc (Ice Angel for me :D) but that's
not because the movie did it to us, it's because it showed us
something we were missing.
Again, I'm not saying it is or isn't a fetish, but the way it goes
beyond simply dressing up and role play, to an actual desire to be
a mother, aunt, female colleague etc says a lot. Do you ever
imagine yourself in fantasy situations where you are a male, or is
it always as a female? I used to think I wanted to "temporarily" be
a woman too, but that is often a defense mechanism due to fear of
loss of control etc. Again, not always.
I guess what I am saying is, you remind me a lot of me, right down
to being ready to propose to your current girlfriend. Remember, you
love this woman and her future also matters. If this is more than a
fetish, if really all you can imagine for yourself is futures in
which you are a woman, then Hun, you just might be <3
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From: guest (Face Artist)
, 1 months, post #12 |
I think for me, the transformation fetish has something to do with
being trans, but beng trans is not part of the fetish. F2F
transformations seem at least as interesting to me as M2F.
When I was around 30 years old, people were telling me I would
transition by the time I'm 40. I'm now 56. Not attracted to men, so
sexual orientation is not part of this. I haven't entirely ruled
out transitioning, but I think it would only become likely after
certain advances in medical science. I definitely feel happier
presenting female, but that alone isn't enough, so I classify
myself as bi-gender and present male most of the time.
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From: guest (Shapeshifter)
, 1 months, post #13 |
I'm same as you Albert. I'm questioning myself lately too. However
my difference is since the age of 24, I lost my normal hetero
libido. I can only aroused by m2f bodyswap/transformation stories,
videos, captions. I can only masturbate to them. I'm thinking that
if I'm trans or not but for now I think I'm not trans. Because not
only m2f media aroused me, also I'm aroused by f2f and f2m media
too, especially with mental changes. I'm thinking that this
"becoming female" fetish is became my sexual orientation. Like Face
Artist said I think "bigender" is good term for me too.
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From: guest (Imlost)
, 1 months, post #14 |
Brother this is exactly me a few months ago,the frustration of not
being able to make sense of what this is, is soo damm a headache, i
posted this exact same question in this site a few months and the
people here are very kind almost all of them said that this is just
a fetish a fantasy that's it there's nothing more to it.
For me that scooby doo movie started this for me, but i enjoyed
every thing that came with this, only in these recent years i start
to get rid of it,the frustration of not being able to understand
it, i have to hide this form anyone i know and not being able to
enjoyed it with my girlfriend,i had enough of it and tried to get
rid of it, i tried nofap and staying away form all of and anything
related to body swap but doing that only made it worse over time it
became more apparent there are fking tiktok youtube challenges
every were every Damm tv show movie as this a plot devise one way
or the other for them the people not us this is like more of a
comady bit than anything but, this is killing me and after a long
time of research and i came to conclusion. Just accept this as a
part of who you are and not try to get rid. It's just a fetish ,
there's nothing wrong with wanting to get in to a hot girl's body
and playing with it, believe me i asked my male friends about it
and none of them denied it, i think it's a guy thing but for us
it's a bit more than that, try going to a gym to get those
testestarones up it'll help with the normal sex libido, and do your
self a favor and don't tell anyone about this, i told my girlfriend
to get this off my chest and now she teases me EVERY SINGLE DAY,
she will not let me live it down
Hope this helps
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From: guest (Random)
, 1 months, post #15 |
I think we've all got similar stories on this site which is why
we're here. I've been like this most my life now at 26 and I think
was in denial for a long time. The very first time I "got off" as a
teen was after watching "It's a boy/girl thing" then googling it
and finding similar content. It started off for me as simply being
into forced/unwilling/unhappy MTF swaps and once in a while normal
porn. Then overtime I started dropping normal porn altogether for
bodyswapping/MtF stuff and being more open to swaps where the
character embraces the changes over time. Then I started to dip my
toe into forced sissy stuff over the years before starting to get
really into trans porn imagining similar scenarios but telling
myself it was strictly for "more realistic scenarios in my head".
Then after a while I started to realize that without thinking about
it I was often imagining myself as the trans woman and not the guy
in the porn and that when I was thinking about myself as the trans
woman, I was able to get off a lot faster/easier.
Which is what finally started to make me question things and start
to doubt "it's just a fetish". I've asked a few body swap caption
creators who quit after they started transitioning why they were
quitting and each of the 3 i've talked to had nearly the exact
story I did and oddly each of the 3 said they lost interest in the
genre after transitioning. I've personally come to the realization
that I most likely am trans and that I would most likely be a much
happier person as a woman as i've been severely depressed most my
life but in my day-to-day life this stuff doesn't dominate my mind
as often. It has started to more and more over the years bleed into
my life more but I know myself enough to know that I am comfortable
enough in my skin to keep this "fetish?" locked away instead of
transitioning and likely not ever passing and being even more
depressed and unhappy except now my family disowns me and I lose
the only friends I have on top of being miserable, as all of my
family members are extremely transphobic and conservative as are my
friends. To me life will be a lot easier as a average/slightly
below average guy than a trans woman who doesn't pass. If I could
have some kind of magical guarantee if I transitions i'd pass and
be beautiful tho i'd do it in a second. Family and friends be
damned
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From: guest (Bunny)
, 1 months, post #16 |
@guest Which caption makers did you talk?
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