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From: cj , 94 months, post #1
This post is being moved to its own thread from post #6 here: http://metamorphose.org/thread/show.htp?threadid=20089&page=-1&se0=thread&se1=show

"CJ

So I have been lurking the forums for years now, but this the very first time I have ever posted and it will be my last, because I intend to go back to just lurking after this. I would send this directly to you CJ, but as far as I can tell, there is no private messaging type of feature here. I expect this post to be deleted, but hopefully you at least get to see it first. If not, oh well, that's cool too.

CJ, I get you're like the big cheese of the forums around these parts, but you have been consistently acting more and more like you have some kind of superiority complex other users on this forum or at the very least taking your bad mood out on others. I've seen you posting for years now and I don't know what has changed with you, but these past several months you have been acting kind of ridiculous as of late(especially to users you may have not interacted with before). Not everyone speaks/writes perfect English and I literally could not come up with a more condescending response if I tried to OP than what you have already provided. Saw you did the same thing in another thread earlier today(perhaps yesterday -time zones), but you edited it out, I think. Your condescending attitude has been absolutely and utterly atrocious for the past like, I don't know, at least 6 months? What is up with you man? Like if you are going through shit, I'm sorry, but that's your problem and shouldn't be taken on others. I honestly feel like your response's main goal was to be as condescending as possible and, sadly, that seems to almost the norm with you lately.

Anyway, I'm not going to write a novel about this "observation" and I have every intention of keeping this my one and only post on this forum, but the way you responded really irked me in a bad way. Usually I'm a pretty chill guy, but I don't know, something about your behavior lately has been getting under my skin. If you are having troubles IRL or have a bad day, that sucks, I know, but don't take that shit out on others. They don't deserve that and I know I'm a bit of a hypocrite saying this, but I'm also not the main face of this community; Paul may own the site, but you are the face of it, like it or not. I implore you to think about that a bit before you attempt to make others feel bad about posting here. There's still a huge stigma when it comes to TF-related material and discussion and you should be helping people feel comfortable talking about it here and not being passive-aggressive towards them because the title wasn't quite up to par - English isn't even my native language and it took me years and years to be able to write like this and I'm still learning everyday; not everyone is going to understand how to write proper English.

That's all though, like I said, I won't be replying or anything like that; I just really had to get this thing off my chest that has been bothering me for quite a while now.

Cheers."


From: cj , 94 months, post #2
I get what you're saying.

As they say, power corrupts. And when there are so few checking and balancing that power, it makes it difficult at times to see where the lines are. I welcome these challenges, and it seems that I still have a ways to go.

I've seen abuse, rules violations, posts from the lazy, the greedy, the needy, and the thieves... so perhaps my judgement is more biased than most. I would like to see more posters follow the Posting Guidelines and help the community out.

As for thinking before posting... I've been much much more of that... but I am still human, and apt to err.

Thanks for you candor and your concern. I'll keep working on improving my interactions... especially when moderating.

From: guest (VolunteerOrBust) , 94 months, post #3
Message deleted by cj. To personal... to "attack-y". Try posting again without the attack or personal bits. And thank you.
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