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From: guest (Aminah)
, 105 months, post #201 |
Some people in this thread talking about the possibility of being
raped by the woman in their former male body.
If you are being raped by your old body, assuming that there is no
way to swap back, would you report it to the police and put your
old self to jail and left your old self with a tarnished
reputation?
Or would you prefer to suffer in silence and crying alone at the
corner of your room?
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From: cj
, 105 months, post #202 |
Ah, an interesting dilemma. Even if there was no way to swap back,
I still worry about how such a report would affect my family... and
strangely, I wouldn't want to be one to give "myself" that type of
reputation. Identity is a strange thing. Even though it will never
be me again, I still feel the desire to protect my "good name".
If I feel that there's a chance to "remedy" this situation, and
little chance that she... he will rape again... No, I don't think I
would report it to authorities. That said... I would find a way to
mete justice upon her... him. We had both better hope that I can
keep my emotions in check, so that only justice prevails... not
vengeance, or anger... and definitely not my darker side.
Now, if he's a lost cause, power-happy, and at high risk of
similarly hurting others (especially my family)... or destroying my
formerly "good name" post-haste... I may have trouble restraining
my darker side and letting the legal system do its job.
As for suffering in silence, alone, and crying... well, I'm sure
that there will be some of that - and perhaps long after justice
has been served. Rape is something that affects a person
powerfully, right to their core. I doubt that it's something that
one would ever get over. But part of helping me move on... knowing
that she.. he is also crying in the corner, perhaps alone from the
same event.
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From: guest
, 105 months, post #203 |
That would be a horrible thing to experience. I don't think someone
could get over that. Rape is horrific but if you were in a woman's
body and were raped by that woman in your male body, that would be
even worse.
Even worse, what if the woman in your male body got you pregnant
either because of rape or a one night stand consensual stand?
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From: guest
, 105 months, post #204 |
I think it would be hot if you were shopping for some lingerie at
say Victoria's Secret in her body and that was when she met you in
her body. It would highly awkward for both of you. She would see
you in her former female body wearing sexy lingerie and heels. If
that happened to me, I'd love to have the butt grabbed and/or
slapped by her.
What if it got even awkward by saying that you and her had been in
each other's bodies for maybe 6 months and she was with her new
girlfriend because her girlfriend was going to try on some
lingerie. Would you talk to the new girlfriend and tell her that
you were "his ex"?
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From: guest
, 104 months, post #205 |
What would the first thing you would say to the person? What types
of questions would you ask? Would you ask the person if it was okay
to touch your former body?
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From: guest
, 104 months, post #206 |
I think it would be hilarious if the person confronted you and
started yelling "what are you doing in my body".
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From: guest (Joe)
, 103 months, post #207 |
I would be worried that the person might try to hurt or kill me so
they could stay in my original body.
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From: cj
, 103 months, post #208 |
You know, Joe, that fear may be shared by the person you swap with
too.
Then again... it may be completely unfounded. As they say, "The
grass is always greener on the other side of the fence." After all,
they did willingly (in my case) choose to swap with you. :-)
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From: guest (Joe)
, 103 months, post #209 |
So CJ, what would your reaction be to meeting the person in your
original body? What would you say to the person? Would it be like
Lalola where you would both hug each other and touch and feel each
other's face and hair?
I think it would be one of the most unique and awkward situations
to be in with another person. It would be so weird to meet the
person. What would I do if the person tried to touch my new womanly
legs, breasts, and butt? So awkward but maybe a little kinky.
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From: cj
, 103 months, post #210 |
"... CJ, what would your reaction be to meeting the person in your
original body? What would you say to the person?..."
That would depend on the circumstances of the swap, and the such.
I've not seen any of the Lalola's yet, so cannot give more than a
cursory answer based on what little I remember about the shows.
I would probably be taken a-back. Perhaps not even sure that it is
my old body I've encountered. The next reactions would depend upon
their approach of me. I'm going to assume that I would be curious,
but not likely to approach - and I'm not thinking that I'd consider
myself too attractive (though who knows, perhaps she's improved my
physical appearance).
I'd probably feel part like I've met a ghost, part like I've run
into an old friend... and if any sexual feelings were present, like
I'm about to make out with my sibling. If I'm not attracted to my
old body, and he's charming but respectful, I'll likely enjoy
getting to know my new friend... if he's a bit crass and lecherous,
then I'll likely feel great disappointment and sadness, perhaps
even shame... but avoid him like I'd hope I would have learned to
do to any other men who act so similarly.
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From: guest (Joe)
, 103 months, post #211 |
Would you want to look nice for him? LOL
I think I would dress nice for the meeting. I would want the woman
that's in my original body to know that I'm taking care of her body
and dressing it nice.
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From: cj
, 103 months, post #212 |
"Would you want to look nice for him?"
I would want to look nice for me. Also, since this would likely be
a chance meeting, it's possible that I didn't know that we were
going to meet, so it's not like I'd plan my outfit for just such
occasion.
Though, if it turns out that he's a nice guy and/or I'm attracted
to him... then I'd probably feel some anxiety over my appearance.
Though the feeling could range from jealousy (he's done better with
my life than I have with hers), to pride/shame, appreciation,
decorum (I hope that I look okay, I hope that I look acceptable, I
should have worn...), to desire (I want him to want me).
Conversely, if he's an ass, I'd probably be wishing that I was
invisible.
But mostly, I'd try to dress appropriately for the occasion and the
weather... but mostly for me. What makes me feel good, mood and
spirit, and yes, even tactilely.
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From: guest (Joe)
, 103 months, post #213 |
Wouldn't most guys dress nice if they were in a gorgeous woman's
body?
Would you go Dating The Enemy with the woman in your male body?
Have you seen that movie?
I just think this whole idea of meeting someone that you swapped
with is fascinating and exciting. You would get to see someone in
your body as you and you would be them. If he talked to you, it
would be your former voice but you wouldn't be using it. If he got
an erection by seeing you, you wouldn't be experiencing the
erection.
I would definitely want compliments from him and for him to be
chivalrous. Maybe slow dance too. Have his hands on my butt.
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From: cj
, 103 months, post #214 |
"Wouldn't most guys dress nice if they were in a gorgeous woman's
body?"
Most guys here probably would. Outside of this community... perhaps
not. I can see most guys trying to dress sexy once or twice just
out of curiosity... but most of the time, I'm betting that they'll
be dressing more like guys... or for comfort or function.
"Would you go Dating The Enemy with the woman in your male body?
Have you seen that movie?"
Yes, I have seen the movie. Which part are you referring to?
Getting drunk and while being aggressed against by one of my best
friends, finally capitulating and letting him take advantage of the
situation and me -- the outcome of that scenario would be much
different in my case... Breaking up with, swapping with, and then
reconnecting with my g/f -- that's more of less what the movie's
about, so then I'd already know who I was, etc. Doesn't quite fit.
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From: guest (Joe)
, 103 months, post #215 |
I think most guys would surprise you. I think most males would want
to look nice if they were in a gorgeous woman's body. They would
want to show it off.
Wouldn't you?
Okay, let's say you swapped with your girlfriend and the only way
you would swap back is if you two had sex. Would you? That's what
part of Dating The Enemy I was referring to. I completely forgot
about the part where Guy Pearce in his ex's body lets his male best
friend take advantage of him in bed.
If the woman had to be your girlfriend, would you pass up the
chance of being in her body or would you want to swap with some
random female stranger?
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From: cj
, 103 months, post #216 | |
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From: cj
, 103 months, post #217 |
"Okay, let's say you swapped with your girlfriend and the only way
you would swap back is if you two had sex. Would you?"
Well, if that's the mechanism for swapping back, I'd want to hold
out for a bit to get some experience and perspective from her POV.
Then almost certainly, I would do the deed - even if it means that
we would then swap back.
"If the woman had to be your girlfriend, would you pass up the
chance of being in her body or would you want to swap with some
random female stranger?"
As long as the swap was mutually agreed upon, I'm good. And I
usually pick decent dates for mates, so I wold certainly not be
deterred from considering a g/f as a swap-candidate. The random
stranger thing would concern me more.
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From: guest (Joe)
, 103 months, post #218 |
Interesting take, CJ.
Would you be petrified if let's say you had a girlfriend and the
woman in your body showed up in some random place with her and you
guys all somehow met? That would be the most awkward thing. What
would you say to your girlfriend? Would you be gal pals? Go to
Victoria's Secret?
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From: Forestier
, 103 months, post #219 |
Joe: "Wouldn't most guys dress nice if they were in a gorgeous woman's
body?"
cj: "Most guys here probably would. Outside of this community...
perhaps not. I can see most guys trying to dress sexy once or twice
just out of curiosity... but most of the time, I'm betting that
they'll be dressing more like guys... or for comfort or function."
Define nice.
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From: guest (Joe)
, 103 months, post #220 |
Nice? I guess a cute dress or skirt with a nice top and boots or
heels and possibly heels. Or jeans with a cute sweater and boots or
a dress pants suit.
If I swapped with a woman, I don't think I would wear pants that
much. I would want to experience fashion as a woman and show off my
legs.
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